{"id":46256,"date":"2015-09-01T16:49:15","date_gmt":"2015-09-01T13:49:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kayiprihtim.org\/portal\/?p=46256"},"modified":"2015-09-01T16:49:15","modified_gmt":"2015-09-01T13:49:15","slug":"g-willow-wilsondan-calisan-kadinlarin-yasadigi-zorluklara-dair-ic-sizlatan-itiraflar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kayiprihtim.org\/portal\/2015\/09\/01\/g-willow-wilsondan-calisan-kadinlarin-yasadigi-zorluklara-dair-ic-sizlatan-itiraflar\/","title":{"rendered":"G. Willow Wilson\u2019dan \u00c7al\u0131\u015fan Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 Zorluklara Dair \u0130\u00e7 S\u0131zlatan \u0130tiraflar"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"willow-wilson-ust\"<\/p>\n

Neil Gaiman\u2019\u0131n e\u015fi Amanda Palmer<\/span> ile Elif<\/em>\u2019in yazar\u0131 G. Willow Wilson<\/span> aras\u0131nda ge\u00e7en bir konu\u015fma, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00e7ekti\u011fi ac\u0131mas\u0131z zorluklar\u0131 bir kez daha g\u00f6zler \u00f6n\u00fcne serdi.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Daha \u00f6nce \u00e7ocuk yapmaya s\u0131cak bakmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve bunun kariyerini olumsuz y\u00f6nde etkileyece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc pek \u00e7ok kez dile getiren Amanda Palmer<\/strong><\/span>, ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz g\u00fcnlerde e\u015fi Neil Gaiman<\/a><\/strong>\u2019dan hamile kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klad\u0131. Bu beyan \u00e7o\u011fu ki\u015fi taraf\u0131ndan mutlulukla kar\u015f\u0131lansa da kimileri ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcyordu. Bunlardan biri de Amanda Palmer<\/strong>\u2019a endi\u015felerini mektupla dile getiren isimsiz bir hayran\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n

Giderek b\u00fcy\u00fcyen, hat\u0131r\u0131 say\u0131l\u0131r bir hayran kitleniz var. Eserlerinizi, alb\u00fcmlerinizi ve konser biletlerinizi sat\u0131n alan birileri her zaman olacakt\u0131r. Patreon\u2019a*<\/span><\/strong> kat\u0131lmak zorunda de\u011fildiniz, ama yine de yapt\u0131n\u0131z. Ard\u0131ndan, anne olmak istemedi\u011finizi y\u0131llard\u0131r s\u00f6ylemenize ra\u011fmen, hamile oldu\u011funuzu a\u00e7\u0131klad\u0131n\u0131z. Bu, daha sonra olacaklar hakk\u0131nda endi\u015felenmeme neden oluyor.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuk bakmak benim mesle\u011fim. \u0130ki ye\u011fenimi de ben b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fcm. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n \u00c7OK FAZLA ilgiye ihtiya\u00e7 duyduklar\u0131n\u0131 iyi bilirim. \u00d6zellikle de sizin ya da benim gibi hiper-duygusallarsa. Muhtemelen bu yan\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011funuza da aktaracaks\u0131n\u0131z. Bebe\u011finiz do\u011fduktan sonra ya o \u0131zd\u0131rap \u00e7ekecek ya da kariyeriniz. Hamileli\u011finiz baz\u0131 arkada\u015flar\u0131mda oldu\u011fu gibi sizi fiziksel ve duygusal anlamda t\u00fcketirse kariyeriniz d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fczden bile daha \u00e7abuk zarar g\u00f6recek.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Amanda Palmer<\/strong> bu mektubu sosyal medya hesab\u0131 \u00fczerinden payla\u015ft\u0131 ve kendisine a\u00e7\u0131k bir cevap yazd\u0131. \u00c7ocuk do\u011furman\u0131n kariyerini etkileyebilece\u011finden endi\u015felendi\u011fini itiraf eden sanat\u00e7\u0131, bunun yan\u0131 s\u0131ra anneli\u011fin kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00fcretkenli\u011fini engelleyebilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen bu \u201cendi\u015feli hayran\u0131n\u201d yaln\u0131z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 konusunda da endi\u015feli oldu\u011funu belirtti.<\/p>\n

Palmer<\/strong>\u2019\u0131n bu cevab\u0131n\u0131 okuyan G. Willow Wilson<\/strong><\/span> (Elif<\/a>, Ms. Marvel)<\/em> ise Marvel Comics<\/strong>\u2019le \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zorluklar\u0131 anlatarak herkesi \u015fa\u015fk\u0131na \u00e7evirdi:<\/p>\n

https:\/\/twitter.com\/GWillowWilson\/status\/636983609174298624<\/p>\n

Vay be. Bana ayn\u0131 soru sorulsayd\u0131 Amanda Palmer kadar kibar davranmazd\u0131m.<\/em><\/p>\n

https:\/\/twitter.com\/GWillowWilson\/status\/636984062394044416<\/p>\n

Ms Marvel mi? \u0130lk senaryo tasla\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ikinci \u00e7ocu\u011fumu do\u011furduktan 48 saat sonra teslim ettim. \u0130lk tasla\u011f\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck bir k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 bebe\u011fime bakarken yazd\u0131m.<\/em><\/p>\n

https:\/\/twitter.com\/GWillowWilson\/status\/636984340522532864<\/p>\n

\u201c\u00c7ocuk sahibi olmak sizi aptalla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r\u201d inan\u0131\u015f\u0131 Viktorya d\u00f6neminden kalma, yok olmas\u0131 gereken bir sa\u00e7mal\u0131k.<\/em><\/p>\n

https:\/\/twitter.com\/GWillowWilson\/status\/636984546051817473<\/p>\n

Yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131k isteyen sekt\u00f6rlerde anne olman\u0131n bedelini \u00f6d\u00fcyorsunuz, buna hi\u00e7 \u015f\u00fcphe yok. Ama bu bedeli size \u00f6detenler \u00e7ocuklar de\u011fil. Bunu \u00f6deten sekt\u00f6r\u00fcn kendisi.<\/em><\/p>\n

https:\/\/twitter.com\/GWillowWilson\/status\/636984655791583232<\/p>\n

\u0130ki hamileli\u011fimi de yay\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131mdan saklad\u0131m, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc i\u015f bulmama engel olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyordum.<\/em><\/p>\n

https:\/\/twitter.com\/GWillowWilson\/status\/636984756794605568<\/p>\n

Ne hamileli\u011fin ne de do\u011fum yapman\u0131n verdi\u011fi yorgunluktan psikolojik ya da fiziksel anlamda toparlanacak zaman\u0131 bulabildim. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc birka\u00e7 g\u00fcn i\u00e7erisinde yeti\u015ftirmem gereken i\u015fler vard\u0131.<\/em><\/p>\n

https:\/\/twitter.com\/GWillowWilson\/status\/636985301160693760<\/p>\n

Ama l\u00fctfen, hadi hep birlikte kad\u0131nlar\u0131n, sanat\u0131n ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n k\u00f6t\u00fc bir kar\u0131\u015f\u0131m oldu\u011funa dair o Freudsal sa\u00e7mal\u0131\u011f\u0131 tekrar canland\u0131ral\u0131m. Allah bizi e\u015fitsizli\u011fe de\u011finmekten korusun.<\/em><\/p>\n

Hamileli\u011fini saklamak zorunda kalmak, do\u011fum yapt\u0131ktan iki g\u00fcn sonra i\u015f teslim etmek\u2026 Bunlar ger\u00e7ekten de insan\u0131n i\u00e7ini s\u0131zlatan\u2026 hay\u0131r, hay\u0131r\u2026 i\u00e7ini da\u011flayan \u015feyler. G. Willow Wilson<\/strong>\u2019\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131na \u00fcz\u00fclmemek, ama ayn\u0131 zamanda da kendisine (bir kez daha) hayran kalmamak elde de\u011fil ger\u00e7ekten.<\/p>\n

Ve tabii ki kad\u0131nlara ya\u015fat\u0131lan bu eziyete k\u0131zmak\u2026 \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sadece bu sekt\u00f6rde de\u011fil, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n i\u015f imk\u00e2n\u0131 buldu\u011fu her alanda bunun b\u00f6yle oldu\u011funu iyi biliyoruz. \u00dclkemizde de bu durum \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 de\u011fil ne yaz\u0131k ki.<\/p>\n

Dileriz Wilson<\/strong> ile Palmer<\/strong> gibi g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnde olan bu iki kad\u0131n\u0131n endi\u015feleri ve hakl\u0131 isyanlar\u0131 \u015fapkam\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcze koymam\u0131za, annelik gibi kutsal bir de\u011fere gereken \u00f6nemi vermemize ve \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan kad\u0131nlar\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 daha iyi anlamam\u0131za neden olur.<\/p>\n

*<\/strong> Patreon: Kickstarter’la benzerlik g\u00f6steren, sanat\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131n \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 sergileyebildi\u011fi ve satabildi\u011fi bir platform<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Neil Gaiman\u2019\u0131n e\u015fi Amanda Palmer ile Elif\u2019in yazar\u0131 G. Willow Wilson aras\u0131nda ge\u00e7en bir konu\u015fma, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00e7ekti\u011fi ac\u0131mas\u0131z zorluklar\u0131 bir kez daha g\u00f6zler \u00f6n\u00fcne serdi. Daha \u00f6nce \u00e7ocuk yapmaya s\u0131cak bakmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve bunun kariyerini olumsuz y\u00f6nde etkileyece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc pek \u00e7ok kez dile getiren Amanda Palmer, ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz g\u00fcnlerde e\u015fi Neil Gaiman\u2019dan hamile kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klad\u0131. Bu […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":57,"featured_media":46258,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[81],"tags":[6976,6978,1970,6977,134,3083],"class_list":{"0":"post-46256","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-yazar","8":"tag-amanda-palmer","9":"tag-cocuk","10":"tag-g-willow-wilson","11":"tag-hamilelik","12":"tag-neil-gaiman","13":"tag-twitter","14":"kose_yazari-m-ihsan-tatari-arsivi"},"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayiprihtim.org\/portal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46256","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayiprihtim.org\/portal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayiprihtim.org\/portal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayiprihtim.org\/portal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/57"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayiprihtim.org\/portal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=46256"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayiprihtim.org\/portal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46256\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayiprihtim.org\/portal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/46258"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayiprihtim.org\/portal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=46256"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayiprihtim.org\/portal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=46256"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayiprihtim.org\/portal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=46256"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}